Alrighty, so I have made two blog posts! Now, my third…wow – I am on a roll! Awesome. I am very glad to be writing and I have found that this is most definitely helpful! I am feeling very elevated today and much of that credit goes to my friends. I have had a great weekend laughing and feeling relaxed with a couple of different people – and it was refreshing (and did I mention full of laughter?)!
Speaking of laughter, I looked up the definition of laughter and this is what came up, according to Google:
Laughter: The action or sound of laughing.
Umm, ok… really Google? You can’t be a little more specific?!? I mean really, that’s the definition you have!? Oy Vey…So, then I kept looking and I found this definition by Dictionary.com:
Laughter: an inner quality, mood,disposition, etc., suggestive of laughter;mirthfulness: a man of laughter and goodwill.
an expression or appearance of merriment or amusement.
Okay, okay…getting better…but still not a very good definition. Then, I found this one…thanks to Oxford Dictionaries.com:
Laughter: to make the spontaneous sounds and movements of the face and body that are the instinctive expressions of lively amusement and sometimes also of contempt or derision.
Alrighty! I like that one! Much better, and more detailed!
Anyway, after having fun looking up different definitions of the word, laughter, (yes I actually enjoyed doing that) I decided to make my own definition. After this weekend, I was reminded of how it feels to really laugh and I owe it all to my wonderful friends. Thanks guys 🙂
So here is my definition:
Laughter: The physical experience and expression of vocalizing true joy and pleasure from deep inside your heart.
What do you think? To cheesy? Eh, I don’t care! It’s my opinion and I like it! OHHH snap!! Haha, I’m just kidding… No but really, I like it…
Moving on! My point in this post is to acknowledge the pure fact that our lives just wouldn’t be the same without the companionship of great people. Our world is so messed up and so many things happen to us on a daily basis. We were made and created for relationships, to be in community with others…
Personally, I don’t know where I would be without my Friends. In my book, God comes first, then my husband, then family and then friends. During 2013, I had a mental breakdown and I just needed to release everything inside. I was so heartbroken and very, very lost. Well, actually, I am still very lost. I am trying to understand myself and follow where God wants me to go. However, until recently, I was still very angry with God. I know, who am I to be angry with GOD!? But He wants to hear our honest hearts, not just some mumbo jumbo…I mean, He knows…everything…don’t get me wrong, but He wants us to acknowledge what’s inside of ourselves, to Him. So, I have been nothing but honest. I have opened up my heart to God, and many people around me – most of which have been my friends. I would say, for the first time in my life, I have been completely raw and unbelievably real in every way. I have not liked this process of refinement, but I have appreciated the insight I have gained, up until this point. We grow and change on a daily basis, but this past year, it was much more intense for myself and the people around me…
I am very fortunate to be given the opportunity to have such wonderful friends be along side me, and my husband, through all the ‘up’s and down’s’ of this life. The kind of people who never give up on you, even when your the bitchiest, most stubborn, thick-headed brat possible…I have friends who know my heart, and who I am – even when I don’t. Friends who will tell me how it is, even if it hurts. Friends that are intentional about showing their love and their commitment by spending quality, meaningful time together…I have friends that I love very much, and I wouldn’t change anything about our any of our relationships…
So, this post is for you, friends. Thank you, for being more than just ordinary, but rather, extraordinary people in my life. Thank you for loving me, encouraging me, supporting me (and Adam), and for always being there. You are truly an inspiration to me and I wouldn’t be who I am without your help.
By the way, check out this song down below…it fits perfectly!
Count On Me
Until next time…Adios!